About Us

 

Connect with your self for an understanding

 

that is as clear as mountain water, as warm as the sun.

 

You can begin

 

 

A practice in discovery,

 

going beyond what you know,

 

what you think you want

 

habits and routines

 

 

moment to moment

 

 

Are you willing

 

to move with

 

Power with

 

 

Exploration and honesty.

 

Availability to others.

 

Confrontation.

 

Empathy.

 

            no t.v.,

 

     cell phone,

 

         the computer is of no use to you now, 

 

in this moment While we engage

 

With each other

 

                         While we listen,

 

stretching beyond our existence of old patterns

 

still in use.

 

It’s your turn to UNdo the thinking.

 

Open to the heart and being next to you.

 

Take a risk. Struggle.  Extend yourself the gift of full expression:

 

your life as a communication of human choices.  I need.     you need.

 

messages from feeling

 

again, we breathe

 

become more capable of interacting for the sake of expanding our possibilities, 

 

Our creative territory, Our collective being.

 

 

Consider what you’ve learned in school, in church, at the corner store, behind the gym,

office smack, after hours, what took hold? of your aspiration,

 

leaving you imprisoned

 

 

 

   indulgence in free distractions, hyped-up attractions

 

so I’ll never really hear you

 

 

The language I have learned

 

over the span of human generations

 

does not honor the moment.  It commands.

 

Demanding that we attend to judging our world.  Every aspect. 

 

Every motion.  Is it good, is it bad?  I must survive.  I’m afraid to live. 

 

I must continue the lie.

 

 

Have you been offered the time and space to get real

 

with a stranger, lover, family, assistant,

 

other

 

and create life connections?  Endurance.

 

Presence.  This moment I have.  This affirmation.

 

 

We will look and listen with new receptors.

 

Hear distinctions between the force that feeds and the force that greeds.

 

To nurture will become our purpose.

 

 

There is a tool for listening, engaging and designing our world to better serve our lives. 

 

 

I know you have pain.  Doubt.  Dread.  Infatuation.  Dull senses.  Excited curiosity.

 

Hierarchical tendencies.

 

Lost images.  Hidden memories.

 

 

You will to begin.

 

A process by choice.  Freedom is at hand.

 

 

This is no sissy psychiatric language for diagnosis and labeling.  No “nice dead people” side-stepping delivery of anger, scattered aggression, unsettled dilemma,

 

moral constipation.

 

     intellectually categorized deficiencies satisfy an ego

 

and consume a world that wants to “fix” things that are simply misunderstood-

 

in need of discovery’s attention.

 

 

A “Language of Life” is spreading throughout the land.

 

It happens by way of the courageous.

 

By way of those who have conviction that “I” am the one who will create change.

 

I am willing to learn new ways.  To heal wounds.  To step in to another moment

 

aware of feelings, conscious of our needs and taking action with the

 

intent of maintaining connection while we

 

live our own ways

 

i can depend on me

 

to respond to you from that place.

 

i will do what i can.

 

So flow. 

 

So connect with me.

 

  

Amelia Roache-Active History, in brief:

Immersed in the practice of Nonviolent Communication since 2002.  

First year and a half participated in a weekly practice group led by

Marcelline Brogli, MFT (NVC Certified Trainer).  I found practice groups and daily

practice so effective that it wasn't until I discontinued participation in the groups

that I inclined to read my first NVC book!  I have had the privilege of learning

directly with Marshall B.Rosenberg on several occasions including the International

Intensive Training in Corona, CA. 2004.  Received training from Certified Trainers:

Kelly Bryson, Robert Gonzales, Rita Herzog and Gary Baran who is my NVC

mentor.  My practice includes learning through sharing NVC with others and as

the mother of a teenager.  There's nothing quite like it.

 

Shared introductions, training, facilitation and mediation
have included the following: 

High Tech High International
Jenna Druck Foundation "Spirit of Leadership' Conference
Holistic Moms Network
Family Nonviolent Communication Meetup
"The Clubhouse" (mental health center)
TranscenDANCE Youth Arts Project
Youth Action Network
staff for a private residential youth care group


Creation of "Family Immersion" and "Partners in Compssion" workshops, Sound and Movement and

Clay as a medium for social engagement and healing.

School of Healing Arts  2007, 8,  Instructor, "Compassionate Communication"
16 hr. course 
 
 

 

Innovations Academy, Founding Member

Relations and Development Counsel 2007-present.
On-site twice weekly to assist in "CC" support with the students and staff. 
In addition; guide/facilitation of a weekly teacher practice group, administration practice group and creator/guide of the
Afterschool Young Women's Group.


 Former T'ai Chi Chih instructor, Director of the Ocean Beach Teen Center and Alternative Healthcare Practitioner.  An extensive background as a professional childcare provider, education in Early Childhood Development, and the Fine Arts. 

In my approach to sustainable living within social and learning environments in particular, I continue to apply the Permaculture Design principles I've learned in practice and having completed two Permaculture Desgin Certifications Larry Santoyo, 2006 and in June 2010 during the Sustainable Vocations Intensive for youth (as a mentor/assistant) with instructor Warren Brush at Quail Springs Permaculture Farm and Learning Oasis.

 

KUNM Radio

Thrasher Magazine

Lama Foundation

West Coast Women's Permaculture Gathering

Victory Garden's San Diego